Paper Dolls and Paper Airplanes : Therapeutic Exercises for Sexually Traumatized Children

Acknowledgments vii How This Book Came to Be Written ix How to Use This Book xi Defining Sexual Abuse Purpose of the Chapter 1(1) Paper Airplanes (All Ages) 2(5) The Sexual Abuse Game (Latency---Preteen) 7(9) Myths & Facts (Preteen---Teen) 16(4) Survey: How Do I Know ...? (Teen) 20(4) Think Tank (Teen) 24(3) Family & Community Relationships Purpose of the Chapter 27(1) Paper Dolls (All Ages) 28(5) Band-Aids & Blame (All Ages) 33(5) Me & My Mom (All Ages) 38(8) My Helpers (Preschool) 46(4) Magic Glasses (Latency---Teen) 50(5) What Would They Say? (Latency---Teen) 55(6) Design a Support Person (Latency---Teen) 61(3) Special Flower (Latency---Teen) 64(4) Getting Help (Preteen---Teen) 68(5) Identifying Feelings Purpose of the Chapter 73(1) Where I Hurt (Preschool) 74(2) Feeling Faces (Preschool---Latency) 76(6) Ali's Story (Preschool---Latency) 82(7) Feelings Mish-Mosh (Preschool---Latency) 89(3) Identifying Feelings (Latency---Teen) 92(5) Coping with Feelings Purpose of the Chapter 97(1) Piggy Bank (Latency) 98(3) Coping With Feelings Game (Latency---Preteen) 101(3) Acting on My Feelings (Latency---Preteen) 104(5) Stressed Out (Preteen---Teen) 109(10) Balancing Scale (Preteen---Teen) 119(5) Runaway Train (Preteen---Teen) 124(4) Dream Pillows (All Ages) 128(7) Calendars (All Ages) 135(6) Secrets Purpose of the Chapter 141(1) Keeping the Secret (Preschool) 142(5) Ghostwriter (Latency---Preteen) 147(4) Secret Puzzle (Latency---Preteen) 151(4) Target (Latency---Teen) 155(4) Bag of Secrets (Preteen---Teen) 159(5) Diary Snoop (Preteen---Teen) 164(5) Post-Disclosure Experiences Purpose of the Chapter 169(2) Changes Since I Told (Latency---Preteen) 171(3) Before & After (Latency---Teen) 174(6) My Story (Latency---Teen) 180(8) Dear Group (Latency---Teen) 188(3) Brave Little Bears (Preschool) 191(6) Kid Hero (Latency---Preteen) 197(6) Disclosure Day (All Ages) 203(16) Documenting the Sexual Abuse Purpose of the Chapter 219(1) Go Fish (Preschool---Latency) 220(5) Hunt For Buried Treasure (Latency---Preteen) 225(7) My Autobiography (Preteen---Teen) 232(7) Responsibility Purpose of the Chapter 239(2) Kit's Story (Preschool---Latency) 241(5) Guilt-Free Kids (Latency) 246(11) Who Is Responsible? (Latency---Preteen) 257(4) Guilt Trip (Latency---Preteen) 261(10) Why Me? (Latency---Teen) 271(6) The Innocence of Childhood (Latency---Teen) 277(5) Talk Back (Preteen---Teen) 282(13) Offenders Purpose of the Chapter 295(2) Little Red Riding Hood (Preschool) 297(2) The Abuser's Bag of Tricks (Preschool---Latency) 299(6) Hot Potato (Preschool---Latency) 305(3) Pit Stop (Latency) 308(3) Types & Tricks of Abusers (Latency---Teen) 311(5) Scavenger Hunt (Latency---Teen) 316(7) Abusers Know Kids (Preteen---Teen) 323(6) Triggers Purpose of the Chapter 329(1) Yucky & Nice (Preschool---Latency) 330(3) Memories (Latency---Preteen) 333(4) Scene of the Crime (Latency---Teen) 337(11) Reminders (Latency---Teen) 348(11) Trigger Box Game (Latency---Teen) 359(6) Sexuality Purpose of the Chapter 365(1) Dress-Up (Preschool) 366(8) Touch I Like to Give and Get (Preschool---Latency) 374(6) Match Game (Latency---Teen) 380(4) The Sex Game (Latency---Teen) 384(7) Puberty Kit (Preteen) 391(4) Pressure Points (Teen) 395(4) Personal Safety Purpose of the Chapter 399(1) The OK to Say No Game (Preschool---Latency) 400(3) Red Light/Green Light (Preschool---Latency) 403(3) The Dating Game (Preteen---Teen) 406(6) Sticky Situations (Preteen---Teen) 412(7) Graffiti (Preteen---Teen) 419(5) Kidzspace (All Ages) 424(9) Self-Esteem Purpose of the Chapter 433(1) Superstar (Preschool) 434(3) The Lollipop Tree (Preschool---Latency) 437(4) The Feeling Good Every Day Game (Latency---Teen) 441(3) Fortune Teller (Latency---Teen) 444(3) Self-Esteem Questionnaire (Latency---Teen) 447(3) Bravo Bingo (Latency---Teen) 450(7) Protest March (Latency---Teen) 457(3) Layered Gift (All Ages) 460(3) Conclusion: Transitions and Graduations 463(13) Appendixes Appendix A: Theoretical Framework 465(4) Appendix B: Bibliography 469(7) About the Authors 476