Taking Space : How to Use Separation to Explore the Future of Your Relationship

Introduction 1(8) Step 1 Managing the Crises or Conflict 9(24) Step 2 Communicating with Your Self and Your Partner 33(40) Step 3 Defining the Initial Goals and Purposes of Your Separation 73(23) Step 4 Choosing the Type of Separation That's Right for You 96(31) Step 5 Deciding on the Terms of Your Separation 127(25) Step 6 Talking and Dealing with Children During Separation 152(29) Step 7 Carrying Out Your Decision to Separate 181(24) Step 8 Developing, Clarifying, and Changing Goals for Yourself and Your Relationship 205(34) Step 9 Evaluating Your Goals 239(34) Step 10 Making Decisions 273(34) Conclusion 307(2) Appendix 1 Reaching an Agreement: A Negotiation Exercise 309(4) Appendix 2 Relaxation—Meditation Exercise 313(3) Bibliography 316(3) Suggested Reading 319(2) Resources 321(1) About the Author 322