True Secrets of Lesbian Desire : Keeping Sex Alive in Long-Term Relationships

Foreword ix Preface to the Second Edition xi I. A Woman Appeared 1(17) An Approach 1(3) ``Whence Speakest Thou?'' 4(5) Entering 9(3) Unspeakable Depth 12(6) II. The Thirty-Six Colors of Erotic Desire 18(52) Getting Down to It 18(2) Birds of a Feather 20(3) On Dangerous Ground 23(3) ``Sex Is Magic'' 26(3) I'd Rather Die than Tell Her 29(3) A Possibility 32(3) Clues from Childhood 35(4) The Coolest Game 39(4) Now What? 43(4) Back to Square One 47(4) The Helpmate 51(4) Polymorphously Perverse 55(11) Intimate Passion 66(4) III. Truth as Aphrodisiac 70(9) IV. True Confessions 79(40) The Icing on the Cake 79(10) Explorer in an Unknown Land 89(4) Why Have Sex? 93(8) ``Mature Sex'' 101(6) Selena's Secret 107(3) Unshaming the Body 110(5) An Erotic Practice 115(4) Books Mentioned in the Text 119