<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Preface </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Introduction</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Part 1. You, the Doer </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 1. Grammar for Being Assertive: The Colon</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Colons... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Having Your Turn</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 2. Grammar for Being Proactive: Active Voice</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Active Voice... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Living Pro-actively</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Writing and Speaking Pro-actively</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> ...Even in the Third Person</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 3. Grammar for Being Practical: Prepositions</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Prepositions... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Prepositions We Owe to Other People</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Those We Owe Ourselves</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 4. Grammar for Being In Charge: The Imperative</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Imperatives...and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Emergencies</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Building Up to It</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Gentle Imperatives</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 5. Grammar for Being Organized: Commas</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Commas... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Beyond Doing It By Feeling</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 6. Grammar for Being Optimistic: “But” </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; mso-add-space: auto" istparagraphcxspmiddle="">But... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> End-Focus</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Alternatives to “But”</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Part 2. You, the Friend</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 7. Grammar for Being Empathetic: Modifiers</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Modifiers... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Failure to Put Oneself in the Reader’s Place</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Examples–Funny and Unfunny</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 8. Grammar for Being Respectful: Apostrophes</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Apostrophes... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> What They’re Good For, Really</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 9. Grammar for Being Trusting: Cutting Down on Exclamation Points and Intensifiers</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Exclamation Points, Intensifiers... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Earning a Listener’s Trust</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Developing Trust in Yourself</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 10. Grammar for Being “Real”: Contractions, Parentheses, Etc.</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Contradictions, Parentheses, etc.... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Five Ways to Create Voice</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> A Cautionary Note</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 11. Grammar for Being Diplomatic: Semicolons</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Semicolons... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> What We and the Semicolon Have in Common</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> A Punctuation Mark for This Age</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Doing Without Thanks</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 12. Grammar for Being Generous: Cumulative Sentences</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Periodic and Cumulative Sentences... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Generous Writer</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Front-Loading and Back-Loading</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 13. Grammar for Being Intimate: Ellipses</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ellipses... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Everyday Ellipses</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Secret to the Bonding Power of a Joke</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Love Above All</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 14. Grammar for Being Forgiving: Past Tense</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Past Tense... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Problem with the Present Tense</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Past Tense Alternative</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 15. Grammar for Being Expressive: Sentence Length, Etc. </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Sentence Length, Etc.... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Musical Effect of Placement</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Musical Effect of Repetition</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Musical Effect of Sentence Length</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Part 3. You, the Thinker</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 16. Grammar for Being Open-Minded: Cross-Outs </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Cross-Outs... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Normal Everyday Inquiry</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Close-Minded vs. Open-Minded</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The Sound of Crossing Out</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 17. Grammar for Being Adaptable: Adverbial Provisos</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Adverbial Provisos... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> “Will” as Straitjacket</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> A Way Out</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 18. Grammar for Being Capable of Dealing with Complexity: The Cues of Complication</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Cues of Complication... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Tips for Avoiding Simple-Mindedness</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 19. Grammar for Being Well-Mentored: A Special Use of the Present Tense </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Special Use of the Present Tense... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Grammatical Time Warp</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 20. Grammar for Being Honorable: Quotation Marks</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Quotation Marks... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> What They Call It At School</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 21. Grammar for Being Modest: “I”</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Saying “I”... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> “Me, Me, Me”</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Striking a Humble Balance</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> The I in Storytelling</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> A Final Word on I</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Ch. 22. Grammar for Being Rebellious: Breaking the Rules</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Few Basics</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Breaking Rules... and who you want to be</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Using Grammar to Climb Kohlberg’s Hierarchy</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> Caveat</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Try This</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">A Grammarian’s Wish</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Appendix A: Uses of the Passive Voice </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px"> </p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Appendix B: MLA Citation Style</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">Common Types of MLA Citation on a Works Cited Page</p> <p style="MARGIN: 0px">The Format of a Works Cited Page</p>