<strong>Rules for you</strong> <br>1. Keep it under your hat <br>2. You'll get older but not necessarily wiser <br>3. Accept what is done is done <br>4. Accept yourself <br>5. Know what counts and what doesn't <br>6. Dedicate your life to something <br>7. Be flexible in your thinking <br>8. Take an interest in the outside world <br>9. Be on the side of the angels, not the beasts <br>10. Only dead fish swim with the stream <br>11. Be the last to raise your voice <br>12. Be your own adviser <br>13. No fear, no surprise, no hesitation, no doubt <br>14. I wish I'd done that – and I will <br>15. It's OK to give up <br>16. Count to ten – or recite ‘Baa baa black sheep' <br>17. Change what you can change, let go of the rest <br>18. Aim to be the very best at everything you do – not second best <br>19. Don't expect to be perfect <br>20. Don't be afraid to dream <br>21. If you're going to jump off a bridge, make sure you know how deep the water is <br>22. Don't dwell on the past <br>23. Don't live in the future <br>24. Get on with life – it's whooshing past <br>25. Be consistent <br>26. Dress like today is important <br>27. Have a belief system <br>28. Leave a little space for yourself each day <br>29. Have a plan <br>30. Have a sense of humour <br>31. Choose how you make your bed <br>32. Life can be a bit like advertising <br>33. Get used to stepping outside your comfort zone <br>34. Learn to ask questions <br>35. Have dignity <br>36. It's OK to feel big emotions <br>37. Keep the faith <br>38. You'll never understand everything <br>39. Know where true happiness comes from <br>40. Life is a pizza <div> 41. Always have someone – or something – that is pleased to see you <br>42. Know when to let go – when to walk away <br>43. Retaliation leads to escalation <br>44. Look after yourself <br>45. Maintain good manners in all things <br>46. Prune your stuff frequently <br>47. Remember to touch base <br>48. Draw the lines around yourself <br>49. Shop for quality, not price <br>50. It's OK to worry, or to know how not to <br>51. Stay young <br>52. Throwing money at a problem doesn't always work <br>53. Think for yourself <br>54. You are not in charge <br>55. Have something in your life that takes you out of yourself <br>56. Only the good feel guilty <br>57. If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all <br> <br> <strong>Partnership Rules</strong> <br>58. Accept the differences, embrace what you have in common <br>59. Allow your partner the space to be themselves <br>60. Be nice <br>61. You want to do what? <br>62. Be the first to say sorry <br>63. Go that extra step in trying to please them <br>64. Know when to listen and when to act <br>65. Have a passion for your life together </div> <div> 66. Make sure your love making is making love </div> <div> 67. Keep talking </div> <div> 68. Respect privacy </div> <div> 69. Check you both have the same shared goals </div> <div> 70. Treat your partner better than your best friend </div> <div> 71. Contentment is a high aim </div> <div> 72. You don't both have to have the same rules </div> <div> </div> <div> <strong>Family and friends Rules</strong> </div> <div> 73. If you are going to be a friend, be a good friend </div> <div> 74. Never be too busy for loved ones </div> <div> 75. Let your kids mess up for themselves – they don't need any help from you </div> <div> 76. Have a little respect and forgiveness for your parents </div> <div> 77. Give your kids a break </div> <div> 78. Never lend money unless you are prepared to write it off </div> <div> 79. Keep schtum </div> <div> 80. There are no bad children </div> <div> 81. Be up around people you love </div> <div> 82. Give your kids responsibilities </div> <div> 83. Your children need to fall out with you to leave home </div> <div> 84. Your kids will have friends you don't like </div> <div> 85. Your role as a child </div> <div> 86. Your role as a parent </div> <div> </div> <div> <strong>Social Rules</strong> </div> <div> 87. We're all closer than you think </div> <div> 88. It doesn't hurt to forgive </div> <div> 89. It doesn't hurt to be helpful </div> <div> 90. What's in it for them? </div> <div> 91. Hang out with positive people </div> <div> 92. Be generous with your time and information </div> <div> 93. Get involved </div> <div> 94. Keep the moral high ground </div> <div> 95. Just because you have, doesn't mean they have to </div> <div> 96. Do compare yourself with other people </div> <div> 97. Have a plan for your career </div> <div> 98. Look at the long-term ramifications of what you do for a living </div> <div> 99. Be good at your job </div> <div> 100. Be aware of the damage you are doing </div> <div> 101. Be for the glory, not the degradation </div> <div> 102. Be part of the solution, not the problem </div> <div> 103. Check what history would say about you </div> <div> 104. 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